Los diez errores más peligrosos que cometemos los hombres con las mujeres

La verdad es que no soy ningún Don Juan, ni mucho menos. De hecho llevo algo así como 2 años sin novia, pero algo que es seguro es que las mujeres con las que salgo (amigas y chicas que quiero que sean mi novia) siempre disfrutan mi compañía y nunca me han bateado, simplemente por que soy sincero con ellas y nunca trato de tomar ventaja de alguna situación particular.

Pero bueno, me llego un correo muy interesante sobre el décalogo (un concepto muy gringo) sobre "los diez errores más peligrosos que cometemos los hombres con las mujeres"

Como me dio flojera traducir, ahí les va.

"The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU ProbablyMake With Women"And What To Do About It..."

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail WithWomen And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One OfThese Deadly Common Mistakes...


MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of A "Nice" Guy Have you ever noticed that the reallyattractive women never seem to be attracted "nice"guys? Of course you have. Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractivefemale friends that always seemed to date"jerks"... but for some reason they were neverromantically interested in YOU. What's going on here? It's actually very simple... Women don't base their choices of men on how"nice" a guy is. They choose the men they dobecause they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTIONfor them. And guess what? Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL thatpowerful ATTRACTION. And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you. I realize that this doesn't make a lot oflogical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GETOVER IT. Until you accept this FACT and begin to act onit, you'll NEVER have the success with women thatyou want.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince" Her To Like You What do most guys do when they meet a womanthat they REALLY like... but she's just notinterested? Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feeldifferently. Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVERCHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TOATTRACTION! Never, ever, EVER. You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differentlyabout you with "logic and reasoning". Think about it. If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how inthe world do you expect to change that FEELING bybeing "reasonable" with her? But we all do it. When a woman just isn't interested, we beg,plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind. Bad idea. One that will never work.


MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval OrPermission In our desire to please women (which wemistakenly think will make them like us), us guysare always doing things to get a woman's"approval" or "permission". Another HORRIBLE idea. Women are NEVER attracted to the types of menwho kiss up to them... EVER. Don't get me wrong here. You don't have to treat women BADLY for them tolike you. But if you think that treating a woman wellmeans "always getting her approval and permissionfor things", think again. You will never succeed by looking for approval.Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek theirapproval. Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman ifWussy guys who chase her around and want herapproval annoy her...


MISTAKE #4: Trying To "Buy" Her Affection WithFood And Gifts How many times have you taken a woman out to anice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and hadher REJECT you for someone who didn't treat hereven HALF as well as you did? If you're like me, then you've had it happen aLOT. Well guess what? It's only NATURAL when this happens... That's right, I said NATURAL. When you do these things, you send a clearmessage: "I don't think you'll like me for who I am, soI'm going to try to buy your attention andaffection". Your good intentions usually come across towomen as over-compensation for insecurity, andweak attempts at manipulation. That's right, Isaid that women see this as MANIPULATION.


MISTAKE #5: Sharing "How You Feel" Too Early InThe Relationship With Her Another huge and unfortunate mistake that mostmen make with women is sharing how they "feel" tooearly on. Attractive women are rare. And they get a LOT of attention from men. Most men don't realize this, but attractivewomen are being approached in one way or anotherALL THE TIME by men. An attractive woman is often approached severaltimes a DAY by men who are interested. Thistranslate into dozens of times per week, and oftenHUNDREDS of times per month. And guess what? Attractive women have usually dated a LOT ofmen. That's right. They have EXPERIENCE. They know what to expect. And one thing that turns an attractive womenoff and sends her running away faster than justabout anything is a guy who starts saying "Youknow, I really, REALLY like you" after one or twodates. This signals to the woman that you're just likeall the other guys who fall for her too fast...and can't control themselves. Don't do it. Lean back. Relax. There's a much better way...


MISTAKE #6: Not "Getting" How Attraction Works ForWomen Women are VERY different from men when it comesto ATTRACTION. You need to accept this fact, and deal with it. When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman,he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction. But does the same apply for women? Do women feel sexual attraction to men basedmostly on looks? Or is something else going on? Well, after studying this topic for over fivefull years now, I can tell you that women usuallyhave their "attraction mechanisms" triggered bythings OTHER than looks. Have you ever noticed that you see a lot moreaverage and unattractive men with beautiful womenthan the other way around? Think about it. Women are more attracted to certain qualitiesin men... and they're attracted to the way a manmakes them FEEL than they are to looks alone. If you know how to use your body language andcommunication correctly, you can make women feelthe same kind of powerful sexual attraction to youthat YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy youngwoman. But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN howto do this. And ANY guy can learn how...


MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks One of the most common mistakes that guys makeis giving up before they've even gotten started...because they think that attractive women are onlyinterested in men who have looks and money... orguys who are a certain height... or guys who are acertain age. And sure, there are some women who are onlyinterested in these things. But MOST women are far more interested in aman's personality than his wallet or his looks. There are personality traits that attract womenlike a magnet... And if you learn what they are and how to usethem, YOU can be one of these guys. YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman justbecause you aren't rich, tall, or handsome. Let me say this again: If you know how to useyour body language and communication correctly,you can make women feel the same kind of powerfulsexual attraction to you that YOU feel when yousee a hot, sexy young woman.


MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to lookto a woman for approval or permission. Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guysuse is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women. Said differently, guys try to get women to likethem by doing whatever the woman wants. Another bad idea... Women are NEVER attracted to men that they canwalk all over... Women aren't attracted toWussies!


MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In EachType Of Situation With Women Now I'm going to blow your mind... A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking. Women are approximately TEN TIMES better thanmen at reading body language. That's ten TIMES. I know, it might be hard to believe. But forexample, if you're out on a date with a woman, andyou want to kiss her, she knows it. And if you don't know exactly what to do andexactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit therelooking at her and getting nervous, she won'thelp! And this goes for ALL aspects of women anddating... Approaching a woman, getting her number, askingher out, kissing her, getting physical...everything. If you don't know what to do in each situation,you will probably screw it up... and LOSEEVERYTHING. And you KNOW it. It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLYhow to go from one step to the next with awoman... from the first meeting, all the way tothe bedroom.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

This is the biggest mistake of all.

This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women thatthey truly want. I know, guys don't like to make themselves lookweak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help. Hey, I've been there myself. Let me tell you a little about me and how Ifigured out how to be successful with women... About five years ago I became fed up with thefact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, andget dates with women that I was attracted to. It frustrated the hell out of me. One night I was out with a friend, and I saw awoman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't getup the nerve to do it. I can still remember thatnight... right on the spot I made the decision todo whatever it took to learn how to be successfulwith women and dating. Well, after a lot of hard work and trying allkinds of crazy things, I finally figured it allout. I can now approach just about any woman and gether number almost instantly. I've dated models,I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal,regular girls as well. It has been a very rewarding experience. I nolonger feel that sick, insecure feeling... like Idon't know how to meet women... and I might windup alone. I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out andmeet attractive women. I've written a book on the topic, and I've doneseminars on both coasts of the United States...and taught tens of thousands of men all around theworld. In addition to this email newsletter, I alsohave a killer downloadable eBook that you candownload right now and be reading in literallyMINUTES from right now.

It's JAM PACKED with dozens and dozens ofspecific strategies for overcoming fear,approaching women, getting phone numbers and emailaddress from women quickly, great inexpensive oreven free date ideas, and how to take things to a"physical" level smoothly and easily.

Bueno espero que ustedes lo lean completo, a mi la neta me dio flojera, únicamente con leer los títulos de los errores es suficiente para entender todo el contexto, digo como si no hubiera ejemplos claros en la sociedad.